Remember November

New moon is 27th of October bringing with it two progressive weeks before the Xmas bent really starts to set in. As such we will see how these two weeks, especially this year, will be real action packed. November, the month of relationship trust issues as one bunks down for the maximum of the seasons antics. Looks like a real soap opera this year as everything is still so heavy or 'controlled'. In the affairs of state we can clearly see this with the ANC trying to politicise near on everything as opposed to actually settling to the tasks at hand. In this environment, someone is lying, its just who that's the question.

It looks like November the 1st will be a potentially rather foul day, akin in many ways to October 2004. With that lets break off into how these days will affect the various member of your household or world in general.

Daddy banker is still the man in control playing the role of the silent dragon this month. He still has the whole floor more than attentively aware of his massive dispensation toward stability and upholding the status quo. See European banking measures as parallel here to the amount of subtle control the father currently wields in many a situation. Everybody else's world pivots on big ol papas shoulders, regardless of how much the family has been broken down over the last few decades. If i were fibbing here, we would not be in a recession right now, facts are facts. The cosmetic frills decorate the cake, they are not nor will never be the substance of the cake. Just like the old man south africa, as historic, slowly setting himself down as the cosmetic infrastructure really starts to fail and we all slowly realise that we are indeed living in Africa. A veritable fact, however much we attempt to negate it.

As for moms massive momentum through this year. Coming into contact with the behemoth of a wall street reality. As with SA's DA va ANC tussling, we all know there is history, but who would Helen Zille or Patricia de Lille and now be if not for standing up to their histories!? Lindiwe Mazibuko is the woman now in the headlights that brings up the images of the mettle required to traverse these formidable 'draconian' obstacles. Momentum, gravity, pressure, no amount of force, explosion or demonstration are going to shake the beast that represses you. I still see much angst for the moms who have been in particularly pressing positions this year already. By September this year the progress that had already stalled, further anxieties will focus now around 30th, 31st Oct and the 1st of November for your group.

For the boys and girls, well its becoming a real torrid affair as we have seen over the last few months. Apparently i have been rather accurate of late regards the young girls penchant for showing up mom and dad when it comes to loose relationships. Frankly i find it rather obvious that kids are showing up their divorced parents. The war of the generations subconsciously rages on and our kids will definitely show us up as they have age on their side. The scary part is that in many instances, its literally a case of the youngster trying to win mom or dads approval. I.e. Look mom, it's ok, as a women of the house i can also pick up guys. Which yes, i mean, the audacity of it all to think your kid is actually trying to show you up in that context. Wake up to the very reality that the kids try fill our gaps. Either divorced couples are sleeping at the wheel regards commitment, or really what channel were we on when we pick that man in the first place!? Leaving the partnership is a failing, but our literal expectations were so unreal in the first place? Where is the middle line? The your kids are picking this up lesson after lesson and applying it party after party. Point being, the young females seem adamant at this stage and will apply as much coercion as necessary.

With regards to the lads dealings in the matter, i don't think the truth is currently possible between either of these two. If you ask me he is lying to save her. She is lying to protect the illusion of the perception of the parents divorced control oriented reality. Neither of them will tell the whole truth and he just can't believe this is the young girls modern reality.

Really, i see one heck of a period up ahead regards the philanderings of the kids, as i have been accurate here prior i expect to be again now! Fact is it our issue as parents, not societies. As we allow them to be eaten alive by media content impressing a popular reality on them. One which really bears little resemblance to real life where your husband actually snores, partners age, curiosity wanes and entropy eternally requests repair of your physical goodies. Realities that actually require commitment and perseverance, not just a new upgrade on an old package.

Octobers Relationships

Well the young boys should surely be coming out of their shells then. A rather classic period so far as we had the Mark Esterhuizen outburst on radio 702, BBC reportage from an apparently attention seeking junior speculator looking for nothing but kicks. As we could see from both these two incidents, there is still plenty of frustration in the air. Further regards, good evidence regards Leo's often childish outbursts, given the 'boy in the water' period he has been through over the last few months,. The leo stretch really shows him trying to shed his veil as such,. or simply his depressive introversive factors. In both the instances above the young chaps were lamenting the past as such. So right on cue there, i see the boys getting into more trouble than what is worth by Feb 2012 if they do not find more productive ways of dealing with their emotions.

Venus leaves Libra and enters Scorpio this week so enter the relationship trust issue phase for all the young girls, daughters and sisters who classically fall for this sort of routine or have recently experienced relationship issues or doubts. Expect a deeper vibe from some of your young female colleagues. That little more emotional edge and silence, key note of silence. If silence persists this week at all from any young females in your circle, know she has recently had a real big doubt whammy and as such is rather sensitive, if anything she could give very duplicate signals over the next few weeks.

It seems too that i have been rather accurate regards mums and anxieties, even regards the financial angle here regards. 13 October will be highlighted regards as well as the 20th, so prepare for some hard decisions and assume the worst that you can minimise the fallout. Pretty much i see that the mothers and elderly women will very much be introversive or back tracking all the way till Christmas this year. As if just biding their time, trying to be polite as such. Possibly doing it for the kids sake. Post Xmas 2011 though i fail to see the mothers holding back any longer. Already i am predicting a dire or anxious xmas this year. Simple hint regards would be to get the xmas shopping done now before prices get hiked given petrol and next years economic outlook, this is going to be like a last ditch duck hunting attempt at a commercial xmas. Another great tip would be to actually await January sales because believe me as per my previous January sales predictions these last few years. This January might well herald a fire sale! Not that this all necessarily relates specifically to mom's, but it is all in the finance picture at present along which we see mums at present.

As for Dads, well this has seemingly been spotlight on dad month however as i say, by 13 October this could face a quick mom or pops switch as mom tries as hard as ever to force dads hand. Dads hands are as tied as they they have been since 2008. Nothing in the economy has changed and hence literally, without cash you cant even get a decent divorce, so really lets watch all those who lay their faith in money reel in anxiety as the dad characters literally hold their own as never before. Advice to dads and male employers is literally to hold your ground as the kids throw toys left right and centre, the pressure should move off you now over the short term. Dads big moves fall over February 2012 through October 2012 so really, pacing oneself could be critical this October.

Otherwise in general, remember we have tense skies for near on 3yrs further now so really if you want anxiety and explosive action in your local environs, press ahead at will, explosions you shall surely encounter. The pursuit of happiness is largely being unveiled as rather the capitalist pursuit of economy. Hence the result that spending seldom equates to happiness, though folks are mystically always left with the impression that surely that little more cash will make all the difference to their happiness quotient. Less is more folks, less is more!